Thursday, September 20, 2007
slacking. going through some sort of trauma myself underneath, so i'm still looking for the balance point. i decided i have enough of entertaining my friend. i need to move on. i need time for myself and other things, and not the listening to the same person talk about things she cannot change and whine and drown in self pity and imposing herself on everyone else. i can accept friends who need emotional support, but this one is just demanding it. this is way too much. in fact i now believe that not giving her support will make her stronger, and is better for the whole wide world.
i need to zen. and find an answer for myself.
Zhengyu wrote at 3:07 AM.
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